I love Christmas, really I do, but you know what I can’t stand? The massive case of the “I wants” that we all seem to have. I want cute winter clothes to wear to all the parties. I want to have time to make a gingerbread house with my kids. I want the picture perfect home, tree, and Christmas cards. And if I struggle with this heart attitude, then you can bet that my children do too.
My daughter is finally old enough to be aware of sale papers, commercials, and all the stuff in the world that she sees on every trip to the grocery store.
And she wants it all.
At 4-almost-5, she loves everything. Dolls, clothes, games. You name it, she wants it. And to make matters worse, her birthday just so happens to be a few days before Christmas, so her case of the “I wants” is on steroids right now.
Two weeks ago, I finally decided to wage war against the “I wants” in both my heart and hers. As she rattled off all the things she wanted for her birthday again, I handed her the World Vision catalog.
As I cooked dinner that evening, I could hear her oohing and aahing at all the things she saw–the bicycles, the cows, the goats, all for children in developing nations. And she asked questions about why some children need these things instead of toys. We had good conversations. And suddenly, instead of wanting a Unicorn DreamLite and princess everything, for 30 minutes, she was absorbed in things that we could buy for others.
And you know what?
Now she wants to buy them everything.
Chickens, goats, medicine, and a bike. These are the things she’s talking about buying.
In the past, my husband and I have discussed the idea of starting a tradition of the Shepherd’s Pouch with our children, though we thought they were too young for it. I first read about this concept in Noel Piper’s Treasuring God in Our Traditions. Essentially, the children earn money by doing chores during Advent and then present their gifts to the Lord on His birthday. The money they have earned will buy gifts for Him–for others.
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ -Matthew 25:40
I love it. But at 4, 2, and 1, aren’t my kids too young for it?
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I’ve decided that if we’re old enough for a case of the “I wants,” then we’re old enough for the Shepherd’s Pouch. It starts this year.